Sunday, March 20, 2011

Controlled Chaos

I am the mother of two-16 year old boy and 6 year old boy.  The 6 year old is Autistic and the 16 year old is ADD.  I am in love with a single father and his son-9.  We are two dysfunctional families trying to blend as one which is proving to be extremely difficult and we are just beginning the transition.  Half of our stuff is at his house the other half still at hours.  We made the decision to merge families because (i will call him Dad) Dad goes out of town frequently and I stay home with my 6 year old taking him to his various therapies throughout the week.  It just makes sense for me to care for his 9 year old son and mine at the same time or so we think. 
In addition to the schematics of it all we are in love and best friends.  Which conquers everything right?  This blog is a place where I can discuss my feelings which I feel I cannot do with Dad at this time.